I have a criteria I measure myself against. I did a job earlier in the year and shared an office with a chap who drove from 30 miles away, parked at the park and ride, got the bike off the car, changed into full lycra and cleated shoes and so on, rode the 3 miles into the office, and changed back into office clothes.
Home time, the whole process was reversed. He had to walk down to the front door in his stocking feet, because he'd once fallen down the staircase in his cleats.
Now, cycling all the way each way, that would be hard core, and beyond me, so fair enough. But to change for a 3 mile ride into town, all on suburban and urban streets? That smacks to me of... well, I'm not sure, sort of 'all the gear, no idea....'. Although he apparently did some serious MTBing in his spare time, so he did have the idea. But talking to him, it was a lot about the equipment. To me, it's all about getting there, and cake. If the equipment works, and the cake is earned, that's all that matters.