How can people be bothered? Really... This is how people choose to spend a life? In front of a computer trying to force their views on someone else.(*) Anyone that’s trying to do so needs to go grab a breath of fresh air and take a slow count to ten. Even if you are chained to a desk, there’s a big old internet out there hiding lots of cool things that you don’t know about, all in plain sight.
Believe what you like. Keep it to yourself, none of this squabbling is furthering yourself as a human being. Stop wrapping up opinions as absolute answers.
I don’t mean to sound preacherish. I’m just a normal person.
This is what I believe. I don’t expect anyone else to believe me as you don’t live in my head. It can resonate with you or fall flat. It’s not that I don’t care; I just have enough about me to respect others, and then try to do my own thing to make sure I stay happy and don’t get prematurely dead.
- Going up the inside of big heavy vehicles is silly. It could save me 5 minutes (Very generous guess) over an hour’s journey, but could cost me my life. That’s how I see it. (I also believe that all cyclists should sit in an HGV sometimes. It’s an eye opener)
- Red Lights should be treated as people.
The first time you meet them, treat them with respect. A handshake, then find out what they’re about by staying quiet and paying attention.
If you ever find a group of them, it’s probably best to listen to all of them until you know where the conversation is headed before you do something inappropriate.
You may befriend a couple, and like all friends, sometimes they’ll tell you a story that you’ve already heard so just smile and wave and go about your business.
You may also find some that are so out of step with reality, maybe they’re crazy, maybe they are a throwback to different times and just don’t fit in anymore. You can ignore these without causing any harm whatsoever.
My final, unendorsed view, is that most drivers really don’t care about bikes ignoring those last two types. They really don’t. Ask em if you don’t believe me. What they generally don’t like is cyclists filtering through tiny spaces between wing mirrors to get to the ASL, not what they do when they get there. I know it makes them seem silly, but they like their cars as much as we love our bikes. So when you do this, if it’s tight, turn, put your hand up and give a friendly nod. Let em know you know what you’re doing. It sounds a bit ‘right on’, but they like it. Lots. In fact, smile and signal thanks all the time. It will make you feel better, and take the sting out of any potential situation. This is even more important when you get it wrong. If you mess up, fess up. A big exaggerated ‘S-O-R-R-Y’ and a wave and all is right with the world again.
That’s all I’ve got. I know that by replying I kind of make it sound like I think my words have more value, but they really don’t.
Play nice people
* = This is only a comment on debates that descend into name calling. This forum is wholeheartedly excellent as a source of advice on 99% of issues. Such as whether or not to wear a helmet and such. (Kidding)