Aww, you feeling oppressed in you white maleness??Yes they are in your post for all to see!
For those who have hitherto had privelege, moves towards equality start to feel like oppression.
Funnily (not funny) a female colleague was describing just now how she changed route in her woodland walk home yesterday evening, because a guy walking in the same woods was acting weirdly towards her.
She was the one who had to take evasive action, as a result, but fear of strange men, and their potential for aggression doesn't come out of nowhere does it??
#notallmen isn't of much use if you're the one feeling vulnerable.
It's an everyday story of the restrictions put on women, which a lot of the time you don't even hear about or consider to be anything to do with you.
Poc often feel the same, in similar situations.
The fact that you can't see, or won't acknowledge these problems, is very much part of the problem.