tdr1nka said:
I've had driver shout at me while we waited at a red light, asking in a provocative manner, what I thought of some cyclist that had RLJ-ed in front of us to which I said, 'I'm waiting at the light, what do you think?'.
The driver replied, 'Well you're all a bunch of cn*ts.' and wheel spun away.
I can't think of a better illustration of the points I made earlier, which I can't help noticing everyone has ignored. To whit:
Two basics: one, 'they' don't all hate us. Most of 'them' don't give a crap one way or another. I for one have never been buttonholed by bores at parties challenging me about RLJ-ing. And two, those that do don't hate us 'cos we RLJ; they hate us because we overtake them/don't pay taxes/get in their way/appear to be actually enjoying ourselves.
If you want to placate these twats/scumbags by commiserating over the behaviour of 'law-breaking cyclists' (thereby, in my view, helping 'justify' their baseless - and dangerous/lethal - brand of self-righteousness), go for it. For myself, should I ever encounter any, I'll ask them if they always stay below 70 on the motorway.
Then we can have a discussion about the relative consequences of 'their type' of breaking the law and mine.
I don't give a crap about drivers like the one you describe, or what they think about anything. I don't think their loathing has anything to do with RLJ-ing, nor do I think we do ourselves any favours by waiting at the lights or otherwise trying to ingratiate ourselves with them. There aren't that many of them; they are peanuts; nothing we do will change that.
Do you really think that if we were all good little cyclists and obeyed the law to the letter, people like that would stop think we were all 'a bunch of cn*ts'? You're kidding yourselves.
Simpering 'yes, isn't it terrible' merely encourages them in their malice and their spite. If you want to do that, that's your choice. Me, I'll pass.