IME it is easier to ride an unpowered 8kg bike than a 16kg one. Every little bit helps.
I do agree you can 100% feel a massive difference riding a 16kg eBike and a 8kg road bike. However the price premium to go from 12kg to 10kg on an eBike with a X35 motor is around £4-5k, in addition to the £4-5k asking price of the 12kg bike.
If you have the cash go for it, as the component list of the near £10K+ eBikes are mouth watering (as you would expect), but it is alot to pay for not much weight loss.
If am allowed to buy another road bike it'll be a carbon framed one with a X35 motor. The £5k price point does seem to be the 'sweet spot' for these road eBike, alot to pay for a pedal bike but even a half decent analogue pedal bike easily £4k+ these days so a £1k premium for some assistance up hills doesn't seem horrific.