Apologies if have asked before (have memory of a goldfish) , but can I ask why you hate the bay?
I have bought many bits on it, and also bought a bike (for all of £30!) - are you referring to selling on it?
Yes; my main issue is with selling. I was a fairly early adoptor of ebay and for years loved it as a seller.. however in more recent times I've had real issues with selling on there; mainly because of their increasingly heavy-handed, authoritarian approach to governing the site.
There are too many examples to remember or list, but despite the fact that I've always played by their rules (never ending auctions early / selling off-site etc) I've been stung by restrictions on listings and message content (such as emails and phone numbers), being forced to take Paypal on collected goods and take the hit on their fees despite requesting cash, losing money through having postage costs capped by their wildly inaccurate algorithm at below what it actually costs me, having listings pulled because they supposedly infringe their rules even when this clearly hasn't been the case.
I also lost a lot of faith in the site when they removed the ability for sellers to leave negative or neutral feedback for buyers - how the feck is that fair if you've been dicked about by an idiot buyer and have your hands tied regarding warning other people? It grossly unfairly stacks the odds in favour of the buyer and promotes dishonest behaviour on their part. In times when I've had cause to address these issues I've found the site staff at best unknowledgeable and unhelpful, at worst willfully obstructive, punitive, belligerent and confrontational.
I've also found the listings process has become increasingly restrictive, convoluted and difficult to navigate - I was perfectly happy entering all pertinent data manually, rather than having to wade through their dumbed down circus of limited multiple-choice options. Photos are another one; occasionally when I had a lot to list and was in a hurry to get the listings up at a preferential time (Sunday evening during a promotion, usually) I'd often leave out photos and add them the following day. Now you
must have photos for the listing to go live, meaning more of my time wasted uploading and then replacing an arbitrary image.
Also, while the auction process can be good for maximising value on higher-priced goods (or in cases when you're unsure of value) in a lot of cases it just drags the process out un-necessarily.
As much as I dislike Facebook for all the usual reasons, I've generally had a fair bit of success selling on there recently - no fees, far less hassle to list, a broad audience and often quick turnarounds.
I really did love ebay for many years but after seemingly being repeatedly kicked in the balls every single time I've tried to sell on there in the past 2-3yrs I now avoid it like the plague. The only time I'll consider using it now is when there's a low/no fees promo on and I've exhausted every other possibility as I find the process frustrating, tiring and tbh while I was very happy for them to take their cut in the early days, now I bitterly resent giving them a penny of my money.