Morals, affairs and celibacy...

[Gromit]

I suggest he talks to his wife, maybe there is something he should be doing to try and make her feel in the mood?

Why is it all you chaps think its just a case of a quick fumble and then the lady will feel turned on? There is a lot more too it than that.

As Pat "5mph" says, he should pay more attention to her.

One of my friends parents went through this, instead of going elsewhere they sought help and went through therapy and stayed together until his death a few years ago.

 

[Pat "5mph"]

Why is it all you chaps think its just a case of a quick fumble and then the lady will feel turned on? There is a lot more too it than that

 

[Pat "5mph"]

 

[ColinJ]

Colin, you're a saint , but girls love bad boys, don't you know?

I worked that one out for myself when I was about 23 ... In my late teens and early 20s, I spent many a long evening watching untrustworthy, conceited, risk-taking prats getting off with the young women I fancied but could never think of much to say to!

 

[rich p]

Rich, being a great mate, we all know that you've relieved his frustrations, and this is merely a diversion...

I'd say I nearly spat on the keyboard but that might be misconstrued.

 

[Dave Davenport]

Maybe she's not interested in shagging him 'cos she's getting it elsewhere herself.

A (married) mate of mines got two other women on the go, I just told he not to ever use me as an alibi 'cos I'm a rubbish liar and would probably drop him in it.

 

[Archie_tect]

At the risk of sounding like a catholic priest......sex is not everything. Companionship? Trust? Sharing a life? Would you trade these for a five minute rumble between some dirty sheets? Not me

Rocky, you're confusing saints and catholic priests.

 

[MontyVeda]

without reading the comments...

tell the selfish little shoot that if he's not happy in his current relationship then he should end it instead of finding something (supposedly) better on the side. Sorry, but in my book he's the lowest of the low, to$$er.

GRRRRRRR!

 

[GrumpyGregry]

Relate? as in a trip to....

 

[Linford]

buy him a blow up doll :-0

What happens if she gets jealous ?

 

[Francesca]

Don't blow it up too much, though. BANG! It'll all end in tears.

he can get another lol!

 

[Speicher]

he can get another lol!

Sounds like he has already got his eyes on a Lilo Lil.


Might be showing my age there!

 

[Linford]

I must say, if nothing more galvanises the ladies together, it is a thread about a man pondering the merits of infidelity...

 

[Speicher]

Merits of infidelity - are there any?

 

[TheDoctor]

Seems to be galvanising us all together, gents and ladies alike.
Don't do it. Everyone gets hurt.