I can't seem to get my saddle set so I'm just sat on my er, 'sit bones'. As you can imagine, being a male, this has some serious side-effects. The bike is set up quite aggressively so that the seat is a fair bit higher than the bars. And this is the first time I've had an out and out racer, but this means that it's harder to sit comfortably. Everything I've read says the saddle should be horizontal. Surely the only way to stop resting on 'my bits' is to put it so it's slanting down slightly? Or do I need to bring it forward? My reach seems perfect as it is. Any advice? The saddle, height, reach etc all seem to be fine... But going numb is something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemies!