marshmella
Guru
- Location
- Telford, Shropshire
Never have despite growing up in a house where both parents smoked. Dad died of lung cancer in 1992 aged 68, mum been smoking since she was 16; she celebrated her 88th birthday on Monday.
I've told myself that I'll only smoke if I actually want one.
Gave up in 1999 for eight months but always had in the back iof my mind that I was missing something.
I well remember going through my rabid anti-smoking phase when I had just stopped.![]()
That is like me and drink - I used to drink simply for drinking sake, but now, I feel I have to deserve it first, and even then, I try and not drink as much as before.
Re my drinking: I'd go to the pub/party/event because I thought I'd be missing something. It turns out that in the great scheme of things, generally everyone is as boring as everyone else, so there is never really anything worth not missing in the first place.
My rabid anti - Pollution/driving stage. It is still going, but I try and shut up about it now
This is the UK, not downtown Miami or wherever, so yes, Arse!
The
'My Gran smoked 60 a day and lived to be 99, all the anti smoking stuff is rubbish'
brigade will quite conveniently ignore your Dad and hold up your Mother as proof of their belief.
As far as I can tell, it just seems to be down to chance, but the statistics are not very good.
I forgot to mention that my dad didn't even start smoking until his early 40's, so within 25 years it had killed him.
That's what I mean, they would conveniently ignore him as it isn't what they want people to hear.
My commiserations by that way, that is BAD!