Right - all presents wrapped and put in relevant boxes for delivery
all cards delivered to neighbours
dinner in oven and will be ready soon
plans for tomorrow all sorted out
Go round visiting people in th emorning - come home and put the turkey (actually half a turkey crown thing) in a watch telly until it is ready
No problem
Until the daughter-in-law chips in
she wants her dinner at about 1 - so the kids (1 special needs) don;t get their food routing too disturbed
so she wants us to have our dinner early as well and head down there after
which means I can;t have a drink with Christmas Dinner
well that isn't going to happen!
so we have to decide whether to cook the turkey in the morning (not the same) or have dinner much much later
neither is great
I bet this is based on arrangements she has made with her family and then slotted us in without thought once everyone else was in place
forgetting that we have a 30 minute drive to get to their house
Honestly - she does have problems with the kids - but she really does seem to live ina world where everyone needs to fit in with her plans!!!
I'm annoyed - can you tell!
BTW - we went through all this with her yeaterday and settled ona morning visit