ebikeerwidnes
Guru
My boss for many years was a smoker
tried to give up many times
once he gave up for over a year and one day in the pub some offered him a fag when he was in the middle of telling a joke and before he finished the joke he was a smoker again
Even his daughters screaming at him that he was just smoking so he would die early and leave them wasn;t enough
Then one day he came into the office and said that he was now a non-smoker
not ex - non
he said something had just clicked in his head and said he could stop now so he did
he still had half a packet left and several weeks later he said he had not felt even the slightest urge to have one
no idea what it was - something just changed in his head
That was rather weird (he was at time!!!) but I think it needs something like that to fix an addiction
if your head isn;t in the right place then no amount of determination will work
all this is the reason I never started smoking - I could see how hard it was to give up
I am very glad I was like that when it was tempting to try
tried to give up many times
once he gave up for over a year and one day in the pub some offered him a fag when he was in the middle of telling a joke and before he finished the joke he was a smoker again
Even his daughters screaming at him that he was just smoking so he would die early and leave them wasn;t enough
Then one day he came into the office and said that he was now a non-smoker
not ex - non
he said something had just clicked in his head and said he could stop now so he did
he still had half a packet left and several weeks later he said he had not felt even the slightest urge to have one
no idea what it was - something just changed in his head
That was rather weird (he was at time!!!) but I think it needs something like that to fix an addiction
if your head isn;t in the right place then no amount of determination will work
all this is the reason I never started smoking - I could see how hard it was to give up
I am very glad I was like that when it was tempting to try