When are you British?

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AndyRM

XOXO
Location
North Shields
I'm insulted every day of my life, do I cry like a baby or go take an overdose? No, I just go about my day. If you refuse to be the victim then you're not.

That's fair enough, and in general I agree with you, but that's not the case for everyone, and personally I think that highlighting insulting or abusive language is important, otherwise people would never learn.
 

Milzy

Guru
That's fair enough, and in general I agree with you, but that's not the case for everyone, and personally I think that highlighting insulting or abusive language is important, otherwise people would never learn.
Wise words. 🚵👍
 

gbb

Legendary Member
Location
Peterborough
Your background can perhaps have a big impact on how you perceive 'insults'
I always worked in large factories, particually in engineering. 20 years ago it was a competition to see who could use the funniest insult, I dont ever remember anyone getting agitated about it, we had plenty of Scottish, very few Welsh tbf, but every corner of the country was open to ridicule...in a friendly way. Also worked with plenty of ex services, banter was quite normal , taken and given in good humour. A tea break would see maybe 10 engineers sat round a table giving plenty of verbal.
I used to think this was a quite British thing, perhaps it was, perhaps other nationalities do the same, I dont know...but I still can't remember anyone throwing their rattle out the pram in 23 years with one company . No doubt someone did of course, I just dont remember...but overall, you get the picture.
Friendship is no doubt the binding thing. Say something like porridge eater to a Scottish colleague would hardly raise an eyebrow during my time at work but say it to a stranger...and despite many of us being members here for years...we are still strangers...you will unsurprisingly get a completely different reaction.

In simple terms, theres a time and a place.
 

pawl

Legendary Member
I must admit to not understanding this feeling of pride (or shame) in being any nationality or accident of birth. I am proud of how my kids have turned out and would be proud of any rare good achievement/action of my own, but not proud or ashamed over the actions of cousins/uncles etc.

Having said that I am pleased to be Welsh and live in Wales, and can understand why people are pleased to live where they do (except for those in the East Midlands and one or two other areas :whistle:)

I live in the East Mids not sure you think we don’t like living in the East Mids.Must admit I would like to live in my favourite county Yorkshire.Lovely people.The Dales.NorthYork Moors.The MillTowns.Never tire of visiting Yorkshire..
 
I live in the East Mids not sure you think we don’t like living in the East Mids.Must admit I would like to live in my favourite county Yorkshire.Lovely people.The Dales.NorthYork Moors.The MillTowns.Never tire of visiting Yorkshire..

Sorry, I didn't mean to say they don't like living there, just a joking comment that I wouldn't like to.

It is just a personal preference because I love living close to mountains and the sea, and would not like to live in the fairly flat centre of the country. I am sure a lot of people in the E Midlands would not like to live in Wales. I agree with you about Yorkshire being a great area.
 

pawl

Legendary Member
Sorry, I didn't mean to say they don't like living there, just a joking comment that I wouldn't like to.

It is just a personal preference because I love living close to mountains and the sea, and would not like to live in the fairly flat centre of the country. I am sure a lot of people in the E Midlands would not like to live in Wales. I agree with you about Yorkshire being a great area.
 

pawl

Legendary Member

I likeNorth Wales.My brother had a caravan at Black Rock Sands near Porthmadog.Loved visiting Bethgelert
Port Merion Climbing the various routes up Snowdon Criccieth for the best ice cream in the British Isles Cadwaladers Visited Trentham Gardens three years ago and found a Cadwaladers ice cream parlour there.Ice cream was as good as I remember Scenery not as good though,
 

pawl

Legendary Member
Just North of Loughborough is a village called Hathern,don’t know where this came from but it was said the villagers put a pig on the wall to watch the local brass band march past, Never sure if this was fact or fiction.If true which wouldn’t surprise me as we do have some bizarre traditions.
 

DRM

Guru
Location
West Yorks
And many of the " Romans " who ventured further north to Antonines wall came from Syria.
So Syrians coming to Scotland now can say it's the land of their ancestors
In the area I live, people from South. Shields are referred to as "Sand Dancers". A very tame "insult" ;)
This is true,As I would have been if greatgrandad hadn’t moved away,due to, I believe the large Yemeni community in the area, there’s a lot of Arabic names of sailors on the war memorials in South Shields, I was working in Washington just after Xmas, one of my regular calls, the site supervisor says to me you know where the tea/coffee stuff is, help yourself, I forgot to tell the bloke that’s just gone, never mind he’s a Mackem anyway!
Also there’s the tale of the good people of Hartlepool who executed a monkey that got off a ship, as a french spy, so they are now “monkey hangers” every area has insulting names for their neighbours
 
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DRM

Guru
Location
West Yorks
We found this also but it also had be understood that we were not German. In Belgium we found English not widely understood but German which my wife spoke was more common. In the north they refused to understand French. We caused major upheaval in Liege at a major junction when I asked a traffic policeman which exit we had to take. When he understood we were not German but Scottish he stopped all traffic and escorted us with our bikes across to the appropriate exit.
Strange that, in all the places I’ve been, the Belgians invariably speak better English than 99% of the UK’s citizens, as do the Dutch, it’s frankly embarrassing how bad we are at learning foreign languages.
 
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