Where's the best place(s) to live?

[Maz]

I have been to Tokyo. It's all very coded.

What does coded mean in this context?

 

[bonj2]

Excellent, what are your nappy changing skills like? Do you like to read the same kids book again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again?

not great i'm not great with really little kids, I don't understand them... never know what to say to them - they always seem 'shy'...