Am somewhat ambivalent....
A time that has long lost its meaning. Whilst no longer religious, I like the religious aspects, a story/time of hope, light in the darkness, new beginnings, peace to all men etc. As an ex choirboy I love the common hymns and carols and the less well known ‘Christmas’ works.
I dislike the commercialism, the expectation, the stress it puts people under to make it special and to follow the ‘norms’ expected. I’d love that it was a time to get the family together, but could never relax properly to fully enjoy. It never helped that one went from the stress and fatigue of getting work finished for Christmas, and then being thrown straight into the deep-end of the ‘festive season’ without drawing breath (usually wrapping presents into the small hours of Christmas day) and a lot of travelling to Devon and London. Am also not a good receiver of gifts....
So mixed feelings.....
Now separated from Mrs FF (kids all grown-up) will miss the greater family gatherings but with
@Hill Wimp will meet-up for dinner on Boxing day which am looking forward to.
Otherwise, we are quite free to do as we wish...and somehow it still seems frantic!