wesa
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gbs said:By the way, what do you mean in the quote "the exact same way......"?
What I was trying to say was that if I challenge someone’s behaviour and they are not immediately receptive then I spend some time after the event analysing what I said, how I could have said it differently etc. What the lecturer was saying is that the recipient of the advice, although non receptive initially, goes thought the same mental process, 'why did he say that', 'what had I done to deserve that' and just maybe they will see your point.