Would not want to do it regularly - too many rules in every other aspect of my life without having to worry about a whole new set when I'm on my bike.
Depends on the group IMO.
But you have to ride at the groups pace and not your own,
Well, sort of. You're not tied in, so you can always ride off the front or excuse yourself off the back, but then you're on your own, no longer part of the group, at least for a while. One of the group on Saturday decided to visit a shop near the route and then chase back on... which was fine.
you have to go where the ride organiser takes you even if you dislike the route, you have to stop when the group stops,
See above, plus routes of some groups are open to negotiation... I guess it depends how organised the ride is. I can understand that certain led rides that insist on routes being test-ridden no more than 72 hours ahead might not be open to variation.
you have to be constantly alert to what the rider in front of you is doing.
Same as ever. More of a problem on tight formation rides, I guess.
you have to put up with loads of shouting and pointing and you have to constantly point out hazards along the way,
I'm surprised that this is so unpopular... I guess some groups go a bit overboard with it.
you have to turn up when the ride starts (usually earlier than I like)
Yeah, I find it really awkward getting up for 10am
you have to put up with club politics,
You can just ignore them and trample straight through it
you have to wear a helmet.
Definitely not for CUK or CN groups. Not for the few Sustrans groups, as far as I can tell.
I have done a lot of club riding but I am enjoying my solo rides far more nowadays, I may not renew my membership next year then I won't be able to ride with them.
I don't think Sustrans or any CN groups make riding conditional on membership, but I think you only get a limited number of non-member rides with CUK.
The Fridays have the perfect solution to the pace problem. You can ride as fast as you like - so long as you don't mind spending quite a bit of time standing around marking junctions in between your fast rides.
I like the theory but I've yet to see any other group make it work in practice: either someone "forgets" and rides past the front or sets off before the All-Upper gets to them.
