asking someone out - question

[Nihal]

I don't want to end up with yet another restraining order!

I said "good"

 

[Doseone]

[QUOTE 2034867, member: 1314"]lol

I’ll post the second instalment about what happened next this evening if there’s enough interest. Any takers?

If you want tittilating details I will PM for a small fee.[/quote]

Yeah, c'mon, I'll bite, spill the beans. Does this end with a boiled pet rabbit?

 

[mark st1]

There is enough dodgy advice on here to destroy many potential relationships proper funny reading though . Just go for it bud if you get knocked back life isnt going to end you will just have to get used to riding on your own

Good luck though whatever you choose to do.

 

[oldfatfool]

Thought this was going to be a thread about pugilism, ah well just ask her out and kick in her fire doors, job done.

 

[dellzeqq]

Has anyone ever been in the situation of being involved in some social group or organization, and feeling an attraction for someone else within that organization, asked them out on a date and got turned down? If so, did that person feel awkward/uncomfortable in your company afterward whenever you saw them again? Is there a way around this, or is it an inevitable risk that one has to take if one wishes to date the opposite sex?

do you know this person - or is it somebody you've seen across the room?

 

[Red Light]

[QUOTE 2034272, member: 1314"]I got propositioned straight up at a music festival I went to in July in the posher part of the Home Counties. Thirty-something music teacher on her own and I’m standing on me own watching headliners Soul ll Soul. She sidled up, made small talk then I asked her to keep me company in the beer tent. I’d gone with sister and kids and they’d gone off to sleep at her’s as campsite was a no man’s quagmire.

“Fancy a wine?” I asked. She opened her bag. “I sneaked a bottle in.”

“How did you do that? I was on the door, taking money, and we had security.”

“Just walked in. And I didn’t pay.”

Ten minutes later she’s “Look. I’m married with 2 kids. I don’t love my hubby but I have a comfortable lifestyle. It’s nice. And I love the kids. I don’t want to get divorced but I’m unhappy more often than not, bored, and my hubby isn’t soulful enough. He wants me to be a stepford wife.”

I nodded.

She carried on “I want an affair with you. We’ll sleep together – we can get decent hotels – but it’s not going to be a romantic thing as I don’t want the families breaking up. It’s just excitement and fun – the boundaries will be set. And there won’t be anyone else, and it won’t be a one-night stand. I want it to be long term. The French do it, after all.”[/quote]


.......and ?

 

[theclaud]

[QUOTE 2035253, member: 1314"]"Went to the dentist today. He reminded me of you. We only have a couple of asian families in the village."[/quote]

Well, I suppose it's a marginal improvement on "I wanna sleep with common people".

 

[simon.r]

[QUOTE 2035253, member: 1314"]At midnight: "I think you're funny, creative and I bet you're good in bed. And you're not a player. You're not a player are you? I've never had a non-white boyfriend before.


She texted me just before August: "I've booked the annex at the Hare and Rabbit Inn in the Chiltern Hills for us and have the day free. I had to book 2 nights though otherwise we would have had to check in mid-afternoon and check out mid-morning but now we can have the whole day. I'll be there at 10 in the morning - can you make it?"[/quote]

50 shades of brown?

This could be a long thread...

 

[Get In The Van]

surely you have a close friend who can approach that certain someone and ask "will you go out with my mate?"

This!
haven't you got a good wing man to do the deed and lay the ground work, find out what she thinks of you?

 

[Octet]

This!
haven't you got a good wing man to do the deed and lay the ground work, find out what she thinks of you?

Why don't you just ask her to 'Get in the Van', works every time for me. She also introduces me to her mates afterwards, they normally wear reflective jackets and helmets and so my guess is they are cyclists

 

[Primal Scream]

wtf, just get on with it, just ask, you can only get a yes or no.

Your only dithering because yiur scared of rejection.

 

[Doseone]

[QUOTE 2035402, member: 1314"]"What on earth do you think you're doing? If you want to play around, fine, but make a clean break and do it openly."[/quote]

Were you not single at the time then? I assumed you were.

 

[Primal Scream]

You asked a woman if an affair was a good idea and she was angry well what a suprise.

 

[theclaud]

You asked a woman if an affair was a good idea and she was angry well what a suprise.

Because women are all supposed to have the same views about everything?

 

[iLB]

Because women are all supposed to have the same views about everything?

You're allowed those?