Fat Lars
Senior Member
About 4 years ago I had a bit of a falling out with my close family (not my wife) and although all back to normal now I've continued with the practice of not giving out Christmas or Birthday presents. It started with me reaching a milestone birthday and insisting that no on was to buy me anything and that was to include Christmas. My wife and I had until then not bought each other anything but just bought ourselves stuff and said that this was to be treated as a Christmas or Birthday present.
This year my wife is going to see a play in the West End National Theatre. Not really something I want to do given the circumstances. So she is treating that as her Christmas present and she will make day of it. Happy as Larry she is probably because it's time spent well away from me.
I've bought my self new shoes and a belt and gloves all to my taste and spec.
In the past my daughter had presented us with a list of apparel to fit the grandchildren; sizes colours and even which web site to order online. Now for me the pleasure in the giving of a present is the spontaneity and surprise and the telling us what to get didn't do it for me. Now as she is not buying me a or my wife anything theoretically the money is available for her to do something constructive for her and not buy me something that isn't 100% what I want or need. Merry Christmas.
This year my wife is going to see a play in the West End National Theatre. Not really something I want to do given the circumstances. So she is treating that as her Christmas present and she will make day of it. Happy as Larry she is probably because it's time spent well away from me.

I've bought my self new shoes and a belt and gloves all to my taste and spec.
In the past my daughter had presented us with a list of apparel to fit the grandchildren; sizes colours and even which web site to order online. Now for me the pleasure in the giving of a present is the spontaneity and surprise and the telling us what to get didn't do it for me. Now as she is not buying me a or my wife anything theoretically the money is available for her to do something constructive for her and not buy me something that isn't 100% what I want or need. Merry Christmas.