PBancroft
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The cane was in use at my senior school, although i never got it and didn't really know anybody in my class who did.
I assumed one would have to be 'really bad' for 'Whacker' Wearing to resort to it so it did present a line of sorts one wouldn't want to cross. I guess by the time it was abolished in schools there was only a minority of schools left which still used it... which (if true) says a lot for it's effectiveness.
The ban on corporal punishment was passed by just one vote. That doesn't really vouch for effectiveness, but its worth mentioning.
Personally I don't agree with corporal punishment, and I think it was a horrible part of our very recent history which we need to get past but I do think its gone too far the other way. When I was at school (mid 90s) I remember a teacher getting hung up to dry for jokingly swiping the back of a student's head for misbehaving. Everyone found it funny, even the "victim" - but his parents didn't.
HOWEVER what I think kids don't fear nowadays which perhaps they should is their own future. When I was a kid I believed (as I do now in fact) what I do might affect what I can do in years to come. I was concerned that my record would follow me, so I played by the rules (mostly) and did what I thought was right. I was, and am, often misguided and did and do stupid stupid things but I was never maliciously nasty.
I'm not convinced that kids are always taught about their futures and their responsibilities for it, and its not their fault and they shouldn't be punished for it. Our society is to blame - we value the short term toys, gadgets and thrills over a lifetime of happiness. This, I think, is what needs to change.