yep, sounds good to me! she can wear her comfy shoes without being worried you'll think she bats for the other team also, no pressure. but the next date needs to be more romantic. if she agrees to a next date, she's interested.Blimey....a lot to take on board there....all good stuff and noted thanks....I was thinking about asking her out on a lunchtime date at first....bit less full on and not so stressful.....thoughts?