. . . that they'd rather not be with? I do! ! For three months! When we met she told me how much she enjoys cycling. In three months we have cycled a total of ZERO metres! She doesn't like the idea of me be away for 3-4 months in the winter. She's planning a two-week holiday to India (with me) next November, whilst I'm planning a 3-month ride across the States (SOLO, which she doesn't know about). She knows I'm away until mid-March this winter, but I don't have to come back! At present I have no guarantee of a job here (Polish greenkeepers are cheaper) and I haven't arranged accommodation either. But there are jobs in Norway, and other parts of Sweden. So, guess what I'll be doing? Anyone else feel 'restricted'?