I struggle with my parentssome times,I just want to do my own thing some times( like cycling)now my kids are getting older,my parents count how many times I go to see them,phone them and throw it back at me after I give them a present they feel they don't want,it gets that bad,I just put it down to age,and having to much time,I've told some of my cousins I'll see you next time at one of the funerals,aren't family's great ,the best family members I have are not blood they were adopted by my uncle they are cool!