CycleD
Regular
Roadies in general are disciplined on stops, so it seems to me you are ideal road club material.
The extra 16 miles to and from may be too much at the moment, so I suggest you do a club ride car-assisted - take the bike in the car to the start point.
There will almost certainly be other members doing the same, and in any case no one gives a stuff how you get there.
Using the car to enable you to keep the ride pace and distance shows that, while being new, you have had the common sense to think about the ride in advance.
My only problem is I do not drive... So, I'm looking at trying to meet fellow cyclists who wouldn't mind helping out on this front after I get to know them.