He touched my car

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Longshot

Senior Member
Location
Surrey
This is an odd one. I was driving 30 years ago and recall nobody leaning on my car at lights. I had a 2cv then, probably a car that invites hands more than most others.

I was also cycling 30 years ago (with rat cages) and do not recall needing to lean on cars. One might hang back and wobble, but not lean on cars.

I think motor cars have been a 'grand consumer fetish item' (your phrase) throughout those thirty years. For some people, but not for most of us.

I believe many car drivers would have objected thirty years ago to cyclists' hands and many still would today. Some might be the same motorists.

The 'road-ragey' aggressive nature of the objection might be a little more fierce these days, but the general ubiquity of objection is probably much as it was.

I agree with you that it's not a 'rights thing'. I'm not sure how it could be. It is a matter of manners. Like holding doors open for people and helping people with prams up steps.

It's not a terrible crime to lean on cars, ignore people following you through a door or let a parent with a pram struggle up steps on the tube.... It's just poor form.

For me it starts and ends with manners.


Excellent post, thank you.
 

400bhp

Guru
This is an odd one. I was driving 30 years ago and recall nobody leaning on my car at lights. I had a 2cv then, probably a car that invites hands more than most others.

I was also cycling 30 years ago (with rat cages) and do not recall needing to lean on cars. One might hang back and wobble, but not lean on cars.

I think motor cars have been a 'grand consumer fetish item' (your phrase) throughout those thirty years. For some people, but not for most of us.

I believe many car drivers would have objected thirty years ago to cyclists' hands and many still would today. Some might be the same motorists.

The 'road-ragey' aggressive nature of the objection might be a little more fierce these days, but the general ubiquity of objection is probably much as it was.

I agree with you that it's not a 'rights thing'. I'm not sure how it could be. It is a matter of manners. Like holding doors open for people and helping people with prams up steps.

It's not a terrible crime to lean on cars, ignore people following you through a door or let a parent with a pram struggle up steps on the tube.... It's just poor form.

For me it starts and ends with manners.

We're with you maaan- [the silent majority]
 

marzjennings

Legendary Member
[QUOTE 2125403, member: 9609"]Coming within the shell of your car - or merely touching the outside of that shell?[/quote]
Touching will be met with words.
Getting in, uninvited, will be met with fist.
 
I was at AlpKit's Big Shakeout the other weekend, we got home and noticed a scratch on my wife's new car. I was a little upset. Obviously (due to the event - where it was parked, etc.) had been knocked by a bike. I'm always precious about possessions, I'm a little OCD. My reaction: "Sod it, I can polish it out."

As for leaning hands on cars, I'd not do it as I get chain skip a lot, and I don't clean my chain. If anyone has seen the black fingerprints along the street furniture of the A56, they will know I like to rest on things. (Really, it's been there for months).

Would I be annoyed about a cyclist leaning on my car? Not really, the pedals would make me nervous though.
 

Matthew_T

"Young and Ex-whippet"
I have never touched anyones car. Even when they have been too close when overtaking. I dont know why but I prefer to have both hands on the brakes and just shout at the driver. I think hitting that car would just make things worse as they would accuse me of 'damage'. Just like the cabbie in one of Gaz's videos.
 

lukesdad

Guest
2125625 said:
Don't knock it, it could be great and you could give it a go some time.
I' ll leave it up to you Adrian and associated 'nobbers' loony evangelists, looks like you need the practice :biggrin:
 
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