I was a postdoctoral fellow, she was just finishing a PhD and her supervisor knew I had spent time in Japan and asked me if I could read through her final draft with her and check her English. I knew she was the one for me almost immediately. Only thing was I was with someone else at the time, and someone who, despite the fact that things were already not going so well, I did love. A long agonising year passed during which time she went back to Japan and my then partner and I tried and failed to keep things together. Then it just got more complicated as when her brother and parents back in Japan found out, they were not at all happy (to put it mildly...). She was disinherited but we got married anyway three and a half years ago, it is still wonderful, and we are now, finally, expecting a baby, due in December... and will be moving to the place we've always wanted together on an island in Canada in September.