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How far do you have to go before you are 'unfaithful'?

Discussion in 'CycleChat Cafe' started by spire, 13 Dec 2007.

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  1. Kiss on cheek

    9 vote(s)
    45.0%
  2. Kiss on lips

    8 vote(s)
    40.0%
  3. Open, passionate kiss

    1 vote(s)
    5.0%
  4. Intimate body contact

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  5. Very intimate body contact

    5 vote(s)
    25.0%
  6. The whole way

    1 vote(s)
    5.0%
  1. spire

    spire To the point

    This question is general, but with the office Christmas party season and its temptations upon us, it is probably timely.

    I wondered what folks' views were about about fidelity:

    How far can you go with somebody else before you are being unfaithful to your partner?
     
  2. ...you mean...ride ..a ...bike ..... with sssS..h..i...m..a..n.o...?;)

    I would not deserve to be forgiven :tongue:
     
  3. Mister Paul

    Mister Paul Honky

    Location:
    North Somerset
    You can go too far in your mind regardless of how physical (or not) it gets.
     
  4. spire

    spire To the point


    But that's 100% deniable! ;)
     
  5. What Mister Paul said - if you share any kind of intimacy with someone else, explicitly express feelings for them, and they are explicitly reciprocated, then you've crossed the line. Having feelings and not expressing them is OK because you've not actually gone there. Fanstasising is perfectly OK, as long as you don't let it become a reality.
     
  6. Bug

    Bug New Member

    Location:
    Fareham
    I agree. A kiss on the cheek can be an act of unfaithfulness, but likewise a kiss on the lips might be totally innocent. I think the rest of the options are always going to count as being unfaithful in any rational person's mind, though.

    It's perfectly possible to be unfaithful without any physical contact at all.
     
  7. Jaded

    Jaded New Member

    I think looking at them is enough.
     
  8. is it still unfaithful if your mrs is saying its ok as long as you dont spend the night?
     
  9. ...as your mrs is saying what's ok?
     
  10. spire

    spire To the point


    Could you expand on this?
     
  11. One up the bum no harm done.
     
  12. spire

    spire To the point

    Interesting that one voter thinks you can go the whole way – assume this is an 'open' relationship.
     
  13. papercorn2000

    papercorn2000 Senior Member

    What have you done Spire?
    Methinks a conscience is crying out for salvation.

    Or is it a case of what are you planning on?
     
  14. spire

    spire To the point

    I couldn't possibly comment! :biggrin: :smile: :biggrin: ;)
     
  15. Cycling Naturalist

    Cycling Naturalist Legendary Member

    Location:
    Llangollen
    Methinks that Spire's writing out the rules for the office party. ;)