magnatom said:Crackle, I thought you got me. I go around to the side of the car and ask her (in a annoyed fashion I'll agree) what was she reversing for. I see she apologises and I wave her, on. What did you want me to do, ask her out for a coffee?! My annoyance at the situation lasted all of about 10 seconds after the incident. After that I thought it was mildly amusing. I posted it along with my amusing reply from my colleague, as I thought it would be interesting/amusing etc. Also producing these videos is 'what I do'!
No idea why you think I am wound up by this!![]()
I do get you and no I didn't say you were wound up but the annoyance is uneccesary and accomplishes what?
On quite a few of your videos in your interaction with other people you sound annoyed which is understandable but not useful. Why, because logic and reason tend to dissolve at that point. In this case instead of telling her she can't reverse if you're there, which I'm sure she realized, a simple calm call for her to check her mirror might have sunk in more, don't you think? And that's without considering the effect on your own mind and approach to cycling.
With reference to state of mind and cameras, I'm now quite convinced that I wouldn't ever buy a camera. My view is the fitting of one tends to fixate you into a negative view of cycling and then allow you to dwell on it over and over again. I can't argue that they are occasionally useful but on balance I think their use has more negatives than positives. I know you and others may disagree but I'm clear in my own mind what I want out of my cycling experience.