Parcels delivered fro someone else - What is the norm??

WHat do you do if a parcel is delivered for a neighbour

  • Wait until they come round to get it no matter how long

    Votes: 2 5.7%
  • Wait a day or two - then take it round when you see some activity at their house

    Votes: 6 17.1%
  • Take it round to their house as soon as they are in

    Votes: 27 77.1%

  • Total voters
    35
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Pat "5mph"

A kilogrammicaly challenged woman
Moderator
Location
Glasgow
Even have neighbours message me if they know we're away and something gets left visibly on the doorstep or at the back gate.
Yes, we do that too here in my street.
Not everybody has an enclosed porch like me, so if parcels are left exposed to the elements/passers by, next door neighbour will move them to a safe area.
Most of us are out working, some of us are on longer shifts or away on jobs for a couple of days.
We also have a local FB page, sometimes I see people from a few streets further up asking who's got their package, usually they find it.
 

Drago

Legendary Member
I occasionally take items in for my very nice neighbours, and I drop them round when I see theyre home.

Also if parcels just get dumped on their doorstep I retrieve them and drop them back round when they return.
 

Tenkaykev

Guru
Location
Poole
A few weeks ago I watched our local courier walk down the path and turn to our neighbours door. I expected him to ask us to take it in as there were no cars on their driveway so opened our door in expectation. I then heard him chatting to someone and then watched him carry the package back to his van. Evidently he'd been chatting to the neighbour via her wireless doorbell while she was at work. ( The package required a specific signature so couldn't be left with us)
 

Drago

Legendary Member
Our old neighbours on one side where we used to live were arrissoles. Because of this I refused to take parcels in for them and one courier got jolly batey when I refused. Sorry Joe, not my problem.

The other side were lovely and I was always happy to take items in for them. Indeed, Mrs D receives a monthly box of preprepared injections the need refrigeration and thr nice neighbours were authorised to take them in for us if we weren't home.

Sadly if I'd stayed at the old place much longer I'd have stabbed the arriswipe neighbours.
 

ianrauk

Tattooed Beat Messiah
Location
Rides Ti2
We are lucky that our immediate neighbours next door both work from home and are more then happy to take in our deliveries and vice versa. When we moved in we told them that we were going to get a delivery box but they said don't bother.
 
I'll take parcels in, and as far as I'm aware my neighbours do the same, and we each try to get it to the neighbour as soon as we are aware that they're at home.

I tend to get mine delivered to the local collection point, partly because my neighbour works shifts and I don't like to think of them being woken up for my parcel.

I received a notification telling me a parcel had been delivered, but I hadn't received it, and no card was put through my door even though I was at home all that day. I called the company, and they (eventually) agreed to send a replacement, which they did.

About a week after that arrived, I spoke to a neighbour across the street and it turns out they'd taken the parcel in, but went away a few days later and hadn't managed to catch me before. It seems the delivery driver dropped mine off with one they received and told them I was out.

I rang the company and told them they could come and collect it, but they were (initially) insistent I post it back, which I was happy to do, but they needed to cover the cost. They declined, and told me to keep it.

Seems an expensive way to resolve one lazy delivery driver.
 

briantrumpet

Legendary Member
Location
Devon & Die
I occasionally take items in for my very nice neighbours, and I drop them round when I see theyre home.

Also if parcels just get dumped on their doorstep I retrieve them and drop them back round when they return.

Ditto.

More recently I bought myself a very mini dustbin that I leave on my doorstep if I'm expecting a parcel that deliveries can be left it. I used the very local Co-op for the first time for a camera that needed a signature and I knew I'd be out (and didn't want to risk no neighbours being in) - it was super-easy.
 

Ming the Merciless

There is no mercy
Location
Inside my skull
IMO if you're not prepared to take responsibility to ensure it gets to the right person, then you should not agree to take the parcel.

You’re assuming they accepted the parcel rather than just got left in their garden. But even if they’ve accepted it, they haven’t agreed to deliver it, just look after it, till the intended person it is for comes and collects it.
 
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Dogtrousers

Kilometre nibbler
I'm a bit surprised by this thread. The rest of the country seems to be awash with parcels going to the wrong address. Just doesn't happen to me, except for during lockdown when everything went a bit haywire.

On the subject of neighbours, I joined a local WhatsApp group during lockdown. To begin with it was lovely and neighbourly. I gave away some excess tomato and chilli plants. How nice. Pretty soon it descended into an opinionated cesspit of antivaxxery. I left.
 

wiggydiggy

Legendary Member
I think I've only had 2 parcels for neighbours, and they had 1 of mine, so 3 in total in neary 3 years here. We all WFH or are retired layabouts so generally we're in to receive things.

I do use parcel drop off at lockers or shops a lot, and its really convenient when ordering for others as I just get the stuff delivered to their local parcel drop off and let them know when its there.
 

Sharky

Guru
Location
Kent
We live in Xxxxxxxx Road and less than 2 miles away, there is a Xxxxxxxx Avenue. Not frequent, but on more than one occasion, parcels have been delivered to the wrong one.

Last year, we even had a lorry load of building materials turn up. The delivery note had our address and postcode correct, but the wrong customer name. We guessed that the building yard taking the order, looked up the post code for mistakenly Xxxxxxxxxx road instead of Avenue.

We told the delivery driver where to go.
 
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