Touchy feely people.

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Night Train

Maker of Things
Just wait until you turn up to do the job, she'll be waiting in a see through nightie,

Been there, ran the mile! I was an electrician working with a housing association. I reported her and ensured that future visits to do work were accompanied by a housing officer for my own, and other contractors', safety.
 

Sandra6

Veteran
Location
Cumbria
I'm quite a tactile person and would probably touch a person visiting me a couple of times, maybe on the arm as I showed them in and again when I showed them out.
In the course of conversation if I'm close to a person (in proximity not personally) I will often touch their arm as I chat, I don't always realise I'm doing it.
I don't mind if people touch me, men or women, aslong as it's appropriate - I wouldn't appreciate my butt being patted for example, but a hand on my shoulder is fine.
Not so long ago an older man (he's about 60) who is a regular in the shop got far too close to me while we were talking, and as I attempted to walk away he followed me and put his hand on my neck and it really creeped me out.

Oh, and just remembered at work a couple of months ago I was unpacking promotional stuff and a customer had stood on the packaging and I bent down to move it and inadvertently touched the back of his thigh. :shy: He seemed to enjoy it though.
 

vernon

Harder than Ronnie Pickering
Location
Meanwood, Leeds
Friday pm I called to see a woman who I was recommended to.
A lovely lady who was most welcoming, nice friendly manner and very chatty. I was with her for maybe 20 to 25 mins maximum.

In that time though she had:
Touched my wrist
Held onto my hand (twice)
Held her hand on my upper arm for an extended period of time
Leaned into me, upper body to upper body
Put her hand on my knee
Put her arms right around me
Held my hand and had the other very low down in the small of my back (actually quite a bit lower than that)

You failed to mention that she was a masseuse......
 

gbb

Squire
Location
Peterborough
Don't leave yer car keys in the ashtray next time bro!

Keyboard moment !!!! :laugh::laugh:

Ive known a couple of quite touchy feely women, but theyve always been that way once they got to know you, but not right from the off, its once they become comfortable with you ( kinda, i guess, don'y read too much into that :whistle: )

I admire touchy feely people, they're not hung up, uptight, they're not inhibited in the way most of us are.
I dont have a problem with others doing it to me, i will reciprocate if its appropriate and if i know the person well enough (and know it won't freak them out)
 

byegad

Legendary Member
Location
NE England
I met a woman like that a few times over the years. Not to get your hopes up but with one of them I ended up having a steamy relationship with her for some time. She wasn't married so maybe this is different and possibly she was using her 'feminine wiles' to bring the price down. Last woman that tried that on me paid extra for thinking I was that stupid!
 

Mad Doug Biker

Banned from every bar in the Galaxy
Location
Craggy Island
What a bunch of utter utter prudes (some of you). Relax and just enjoy the compliment, it doesn't always have to mean anything :rolleyes:

I'm just grateful for ANYTHING by the way (hint hint):laugh:

Although I really don't mind being touched (I just wish it would happen to me more often), I am not myself touchy feely and agree totally with the original post that if I did that to a woman I'd probably be seen as being some sort of sinister perv, but if I was a woman doing it to a man.... :rolleyes:

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I actually had to think about that one for a moment :blush:
 

Globalti

Legendary Member
I went to see a physio about my sore back and she pulled my kecks down and massaged my glutes vigorously while getting rather breathless. Did she do wrong?
 

mrandmrspoves

Middle aged bald git.
Location
Narfuk
I went to see a physio about my sore back and she pulled my kecks down and massaged my glutes vigorously while getting rather breathless. Did she do wrong?
Yes she did wrong....you probably were stiffer when you left than when you went in......your back I mean! :smile:
 
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