Thanks for the advice and suggestions.
Success I think.
I left the tyre with the tube in for over 24 hours at 100 psi, started again with two layers of yellow tape and the rim strip and liberal amounts of soapy liquid to both rim and tyre and installed the tyre very carefully. Took out the valve core and used the track pump and it sealed, got it to 60 psi and it deflated slowly, put the valve core back in and it still inflated relatively OK.
I then took the valve core out again and inserted some sealant and tried pumping it up again, this time it wasn't seating, so I took the core out and used the CO2 cartridge, then put the valve core in and pumped like crazy with the track pump, there was so much sealant flying out of every bit of the rim, but slowly this reduced and the tyre got up to pressure. I did the bump/rotate lay on each side and bump rotate again and have now inflated it to 60 psi. I'll leave it hanging and see how it goes.
Now for the rear wheel...............
This has been a right pain I hope it's worth it.