OP - Not all UK cyclists are helmet obsessed.
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@User13710 @Brandane and a fair few others, I ride a few thousand miles a year with nothing between me and the elements other than a nice cloth cap/bandana (if anything)
The lack of a pudding bowl does not detract from my enjoyment of the ride, moreover it actually enhances it.
I am an adult that makes his own decisions, and takes responsibility for his own safety. I ride in a safe, assertive, predictable manner, and watch where I am going by looking well up the road. I don't go hell for leather down hills to see how fast i can go, because I'm not 13 anymore. I anticipate road hazards/conditions that could have me off - gravel on corners, overbanding, potholes, white lines when wet.
Having toured outside the UK, I can assure the OP and others that the UK is a wierd place to cycle compared to the NL or Germany. There seems to be an 'All the gear, no idea' mindset about the British. We (them not me) seem to be very image-conscious, and worried about what people make think of us if we don't comply to societal/media promoted 'norms'. Thus someone started saying cyclists have to wear helmets and the rot set in.
I liken it very much to the implementation of health and safety, but whereas PPE would normally be the last consideration, with cycling for some people in the media/interweb/non-cyclists PPE, helmets/gloves/hi-viz (bleurgh
) seems to be the magical cure all.
It's not.
It is a shameful abdication of responsibility onto the most vulnerable of road users.
If we hit you and you get hurt, it's your fault for not wearing a helmet???? I must have missed that lesson....
I am not responsible for leaving swaithes of gravel on the corner, I am not responsible for the road surface that would make the cratered moon surface look like a snooker table. I don't buy into the latest must-have 150psi lightweight racing tyre that blows out when it so much as touches a flint. I aren't the person driving a car whilst trying to check the twitter status of my followers. I aren't the one LOL'ing on FB to my buddies instead of concentrating on my driving. I aren't the one saddled with a 3 year £400.00 per month bank loan for the latest 'must-have' crotch rocket that the advertisers promised would be driven on deserted streets only to find myself stuck nose to tail in traffic - getting increasingly frustrated at free-loading cyclists.
As well as the above there are a myriad of causes to bike crashes/road safety incidents, and a 'grown-up' and experienced approach to riding will eliminate most if not all of them.
The more miles I ride without helmet in safety, the more it adds to my experience and ability, and the more it shows that I have no need for a helmet.
It's like the whole country has gone risk-averse in its attitude to life, and that is a totally alien concept to me. Life is an adventure. Get out there and grab it by the balls.
Starting to waffle......