sevenfourate
Devotee of OCD
- Location
- Lowestoft, Suffolk
Wow ! Kudos š Bet that was a serious amount of calories usedā¦ā¦
A loosely-planned, nebulous waft round the notswolds with a mate on his new ebike yesterday.
10 miles to the meet via the park then on to 35 subsequent poorly-planned miles mostly on the b-roads of west Oxfordshire; occasionally enduring / diverting to avoid fast, traffic laden A-roads, encountering some fantastic (if short) gravel bridleways and frequently getting lost because we were too busy chatting b*llocks...
It was great to see mate (whoās really positive about his new bike) although as Iāve found in the past riding in traffic with someone else was pretty stressful ā the logistics of road positioning and my sometimes reactionary response to dickheads freshly questionable in the context of someone elseās presence.
To further blight the ride I lost one of my long-serving water bottles (I hope left at a cafe stop but I wonāt know until I ring them later) and after a summer of sojourns sans-sunburn I've still managed to cook my face and arms to some degree..
Despite mateās assisted ride the pace was pretty sedate and after about 45 miles covered by the time we parted I still apparently had plenty of energy left along with the unusual desire to squander it. I smashed it back into the city, hit the pull-up machine in the park (currently canāt get enough of this) and bothered the shops for some dinner before heading home.
In the end a shade over 62 miles and by far my longest ride for a couple of years.. and while it makes sense to combine a shared interest with a mate I'm still struggling to enjoy non-solo ride and felt utterly emotionally drained when I got back.
It's extremely demoralising and frustrating that seemingly every time I try to share something I love with friends it turns out this way; I'm hoping that we might fare better if we can find some routes completely off the road to avoid the persistent need to accommodate other road users..
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Good work. In more ways than one š
Iām the most content Solo person ever - in everything I do. Have been since being an only child (Living in the sticks a bit).
BUT: This Summer Iāve gone from being absolutely a single cyclist; to actually actively forming a Sunday Social Group. Full circle achieved for me. Ask my Wife. Thatās quite an achievement š¤£
*Each of the other participants has their traits that narks this old goat - at times. [And Iād be quite frankly shocked if my loud, boisterous and bullish antics didnāt bug those around me at times too] - but deep down we all remain friends for a reason. And getting together for a couple of hours here and there - and a few minutes of that irritating you - doesnāt have to determine your week š

Thanks - and great work yourself!
Don't get me wrong I love cycling / being on my own; but it would be nice to be able to enjoy it with others too so it's always jarring when I try and it has the opposite effect to the intended enjoyment.
Anyway, thanks for your reassurance - not sure why specifically (possibly reasons given up-thread plus exhaustion, sunstroke allergens, whatever...) but my mental health was absolutely in the bin after yesterday's ride, while usually getting out on the bike has completely the opposite effect.
Maybe I need a solo recovery ride to recuperate from yesterday's non-solo effort![]()
I rode three miles today to Cycle Heaven and back along the river path. It's the furthest ive ridden in months, so quite a big deal. Bloody loved it.
Great to hear ! You been ill, injured orā¦.? Hope youāre on the return now either way - and fab you enjoyed your outing š