The inheritance thing bugs me a little. I have a very modest house worth IRO £140k although given a crash, that could easily evaporate. But, if I popped my clogs, £140k plus my personal 'wealth', shared 3 ways...minimum of say 50k each. But none of my kids want to buy their houses, they'e all quite settled in council houses.
So what'll they do with it ? It'l be gone in 5 years, everything I worked for
That sounds grumpy or moaning...its not, I just feel a bit 'meh that's what'll probably happen. It doesnt really matter, I'll be gone.
Understand completely. I do not have a fortune to leave, and, with six "children" (youngest 42, so, not exactly a child!) it will be diluted even more. I suspect with two of them, even five years is an optimistic estimate of how long it will be before it is frittered away, the remaining four I think to varying degrees may use it wisely.
My approach is:
- Leaving money (or property) behind is not my primary motivation, but, if when I go, there is something left, they (the children) are welcome to it.
- Whatever they do, there is not point me worrying about it, I will not be there, they are all adults, to a degree, their (potential) behaviour is perhaps partly due to my influence anyway
- Whatever they get, it is more than I inherited, (which was so zero), so, if it makes their lives more enjoyable, even for a just a few months, is that not a win?
- Finally, my life maxim, do not worry about the things you can do nothing about!
Coincidentally, today is Friday, and I will be depleting the coffers at the local pub tonight!