Well lets get the ozone issue out of the way. EVs don't emit it. The ozone contribution is about the methods of creating the electricity that charge the car. Switch to greener electricity generation - less ozone. The secondary aspect is that nitrous oxides which are emitted from ICE cars have a suppressant effect on ground level ozone. By eliminating one greenhouse gas, it allows another greenhouse gas to be more prevalent. That isn't the fault of the cars.
Non exhaust particulate emissions are worse in EVs that's true but
all cars produce them as all cars have tyres and brakes. Yes, EVs are heavier than ICE cars, but much of the research into this area is somewhat statistically driven and often overlooks that EVs use their brakes less.
https://12ft.io/proxy?q=https://www.autoexpress.co.uk/sustainability/357592/electric-car-particulate-pollution-myths-busted-rac-report
So in summary, EVs are much less polluting than ICE cars. The amount that they are better in terms of fuel is driven by your country's energy production system. They are also better than ICE cars when it comes to non-emission pollution such as particulates.