ok, i had the new oring arrived, and got my 3/8" torque wrench ready and i have noticed something. the oring was fitted so that was not the issue. but the torque wrench only works one way and since this is left hand threaded i could not torque it properly, just wait for the click and nothing. my 1/2" torque wrench could do it at 40nm minimum, but wasn't home at the time, so my new guess is that the bike mechanic who assembled it at the shop also had no torque wrench to do 30nm left handed and just nipped it up. i went fairly tight on it i guess it is in the 40-50nm region, i will have to monitor it and see what happens in the upcoming months.