User3143 said:
If this was me, I would tell you to mind your own business. Calling me mate/friend eh? Mind you own.
Er Lee,
It is our business when our taxes are used to pay the Police to scrape your remains off of the road. It is our business when it comes to finding money to pay the hard-pressed ambulance service to transport what is left of you to the morgue. It is our business, when it comes to paying the Police to investigate the circumstances of your demise and the coroner to make a ruliing. Tot that up - how much do you think that comes to?
Frankly, I'd rather see public money used on more worthy causes, such as the disabled, sick, elderly or people who have enough nous to realise why it is simply idiotic to ride around after dark with no lights.
You complain about potentially being spoken to like a five-year-old. Tell me, what is 'mature' about persistently and deliberately putting the safety of yourself and others in jeopardy?
Do you think I have nothing better to do? I can assure you I do - It's just that the sight of a cyclist lying in a pool of his/her own blood does not turn me on in the least.
Tell me, if you saw someone preparing to jump off a high building, would you just walk on by? If not, why do you think my reaction to seeing people with no lights on busy streets would be any different? So was it a lecture? - well, call it what you want. But if that makes just one person re-think and take a basic, simple step to stay alive (like shelling out a fiver!), I can live with being called a sanctamonius twit. Sticks and stones won't save YOUR bones.
Do you want to know why people don't 'mind their own' sometimes? It's a reaction - being taken back, aghast at the sight of such stupidity and wondering what it is about you that doesn't understand or even care about what you are doing.