How do your none cycling friends perceive you

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johnnyb47

Guru
Location
Wales
Hi again.
Not so long back i was basically a non cyclist. The car was used for virtually every trip (shame on me)
The thought of cycling more than 10 miles in my opinion was reserved for the fitness fanatics.
Time has passed though and I've ditched the car for two wheels of the bike. The cycling bug has really taken over my life now and only ever use the car when absolutely necessary.
After many rides over the years and aspiring to cyclists far better than me, I've pushed myself hard to break personal goals. When I first started i can remember setting my goals on one day cracking a 50 mile ride At the time it almost felt like an impossible goal to achieve. Will my knees give out, to whether my backside would take the uncomfortable saddle over such a long distance.
It just seemed like a "pipe dream" at the time, but seeing others doing it encouraged me to press on.
With perseverance the miles slowly increased over the months and felt really good about myself for being able to ride 20 miles a day. It was hard going as each mile stone was reached. My body would be aching like mad the next day after pushing that little further, but it felt so good mentally in hitting these new targets. As 20 miles turned into 30 rides the sorter rides became a breeze and could put down the hammer in getting soon decent average speeds. I can remember quite vividly the first time i did the metric 100. It was really hard going and was exhausted after it. I can remember watching the trip computer obsessively as i reached it.
After hitting this goal though i though it would be a one off affair.
It couldn't of been any further from the truth though as I just wanted to do it again and again.
After conquering this mile stone many times, cycling further seemed to become easier. I've managed to cycle just over 100 miles in a day this year with out struggling over duly.
With cycling being such a main focus of my life now, I've found I've had very little time left to do things i once did. Spending time in the garden or socialising with friends seems to have got less and less as all my time is spent cycling. Now its winter the miles have naturally taken a hit again and feel at a loose end some day's when the weather is awful.
My friends though seem to have differing opinions of what i do. Some think ive completely lost the plot and suffering from a midlife crisis whilst others think im some sort of super human lol.
Either way im really happy I've taken up cycling whatever they think. I had very low self esteem when i first started those first tentative miles, and as its progressed its given me a little sense of achievement in my otherwise shambolic existence.
What do your non cycling friends think about you and your cycling. Do they think you're some sort of eco warrior or fitness fanatic.
After cycling for such a longish time now its hard to remember how i would perceive a cyclist if i wasn't one myself
 

classic33

Leg End Member
Nuts for cycling when I could catch a bus.

One workplace ran a book on how long I'd last cycling there twice a day. Later there were a few who said the new location was too far to cycle, so I did it.

"Clearly nuts" for cycling with a fridge-freezer on the back.
 
I cycle for transport, when necessary lugging tools equipment and materials on a trailer, people I work with look on me almost with pity, like I'm some simple minded fool for not owning a car, yet 95% of my jobs are within 7 miles of my home and I can get from one end of the city to the other faster than a car or public transport, ( maybe not always when fully loaded but still pretty quick ). I love the commute, I look forward to it, even in shitty weather, and I love not paying $50 plus a day to park, not to mention the time spent driving around looking for a space, I love not paying insurance, gas, depreciation etc'. You will never hear me crying about being stuck in traffic for hours and I recently had a battery of tests done in hospital (really long story) and the cardiologist told me "we don't see men your age as healthy as you very often", (if you knew me you would smile) can any of them say that? I feel really lucky to be able to be a cycling fool.
 
They admire me greatly for my prowess, fitness, and youthful appearance.

Okay, they think I'm nuts. I suspect a few reckon we must be living in serious poverty because we don't have a car. None of our bikes are even E-Bikes, for goodness sakes.

On the other hand I love the feeling of independence to be able to maintain our main form of transport myself, and to travel wherever I want to go without paying handsomely for the privilege. Like @johnnyb47 I am getting increasingly obsessive about increasing mileage, and I get a real kick out of arriving in a reasonably distant city by bike.

And yet, after living like this for over a decade, I still get people telling me it "isn't possible" not to have a car...
 
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Slick

Guru
The weather one always gets em, I hate the wind (unless by some miracle it's at my actual back) but pay no mind to rain no matter how heavy and I always get funny looks when I still get to work first. One guy actually said to me just the other morning when he realised that I cycled in again, noted that it was a shame for my Mrs, when they find me lying squished on a kerb one day. He's a charmer that one.
 

alicat

Legendary Member
Location
Staffs
Not exactly a friend but a fellow guest on my walking holiday thinks I'm a law breaker - a criminal one - for cycling along an alleyway that says 'cyclists dismount' to avoid an unpleasant road. And that after I explained that I always gave way to pedestrians.:ohmy:
 

Slick

Guru
Hi again.
Not so long back i was basically a non cyclist. The car was used for virtually every trip (shame on me)
The thought of cycling more than 10 miles in my opinion was reserved for the fitness fanatics.
Time has passed though and I've ditched the car for two wheels of the bike. The cycling bug has really taken over my life now and only ever use the car when absolutely necessary.
After many rides over the years and aspiring to cyclists far better than me, I've pushed myself hard to break personal goals. When I first started i can remember setting my goals on one day cracking a 50 mile ride At the time it almost felt like an impossible goal to achieve. Will my knees give out, to whether my backside would take the uncomfortable saddle over such a long distance.
It just seemed like a "pipe dream" at the time, but seeing others doing it encouraged me to press on.
With perseverance the miles slowly increased over the months and felt really good about myself for being able to ride 20 miles a day. It was hard going as each mile stone was reached. My body would be aching like mad the next day after pushing that little further, but it felt so good mentally in hitting these new targets. As 20 miles turned into 30 rides the sorter rides became a breeze and could put down the hammer in getting soon decent average speeds. I can remember quite vividly the first time i did the metric 100. It was really hard going and was exhausted after it. I can remember watching the trip computer obsessively as i reached it.
After hitting this goal though i though it would be a one off affair.
It couldn't of been any further from the truth though as I just wanted to do it again and again.
After conquering this mile stone many times, cycling further seemed to become easier. I've managed to cycle just over 100 miles in a day this year with out struggling over duly.
With cycling being such a main focus of my life now, I've found I've had very little time left to do things i once did. Spending time in the garden or socialising with friends seems to have got less and less as all my time is spent cycling. Now its winter the miles have naturally taken a hit again and feel at a loose end some day's when the weather is awful.
My friends though seem to have differing opinions of what i do. Some think ive completely lost the plot and suffering from a midlife crisis whilst others think im some sort of super human lol.
Either way im really happy I've taken up cycling whatever they think. I had very low self esteem when i first started those first tentative miles, and as its progressed its given me a little sense of achievement in my otherwise shambolic existence.
What do your non cycling friends think about you and your cycling. Do they think you're some sort of eco warrior or fitness fanatic.
After cycling for such a longish time now its hard to remember how i would perceive a cyclist if i wasn't one myself
I just re-read your post again @johnnyb47 and think it's worth mentioning that a 1 trick pony can quickly run out of steam and you shouldn't isolate yourself from friends who don't get cycling, as they probably never will. Take care.
 

Milzy

Guru
Sometimes detect slight envy from casual cyclists. They say ohh I’ve been there & done that, just want to tootle around etc. The faster riders are called team sky/ineos, obviously they don’t know quick step get the most racing points every year. Then they say you can’t ride with us you’re too fast. It’s annoying when they moan I’m 50 years old, it’s a life long sport you could be 4w/kg at 50 if you put in the work.
Then there’s those who just think you’re a knobber but it’s them who are always on drink/drugs & no exercise regime. Knobbers!
 

mudsticks

Obviously an Aubergine
I've always cycled, so i don't think 'they' think anything of it.. It's just part of who I am.

I used to carry the kids about that way too, on various bike seats / trailers / tag along devices etc.

So their friends all got used to it as well.

Yes some Ppl think that touring is a slightly odd way to go on holiday maybe, but I think in fact many of them envy the relative cheapness and freedom that brings.

I'd agree with @Slick above though. It's important not to isolate yself or become a one trick pony.

There's more to life than cycling, and if one day (horrors) you couldn't cycle, you might find yself at a loose end.
 
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Deleted member 1258

Guest
Retired now and only riding a couple of times a week. When I was working I was considered weird for not owning a car, even more weird when they realized I could drive, in a couple of places part of my job was company driver, just before I retired I brought a car but still cycled to work most days, that confused a lot of people. Amongst friends its just something I do.
 
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