I'm not an expert but I know I've had far more than my fair share of women.
first thing is self belief, if you think your ugly, fat, not worthy, a woman can sense that a mile off, their like dogs and fear, you got to be able to walk in the room, head held hi and know that you deserve any woman in the house.
Don't believe me? look at Rod Stewart, Chris
Evans, mick Hucknall