Or if you prefer; we pamper to the supposed needs of attention seeking nobbers.I guess she won't be heading to Uganda for a holiday any time soon then...We do live in a very tolerant and conservative society in the UK.
Or if you prefer; we pamper to the supposed needs of attention seeking nobbers.I guess she won't be heading to Uganda for a holiday any time soon then...We do live in a very tolerant and conservative society in the UK.
Yes, it's not every day that a man comes out as a lesbian!
When you’re male-to-female, people automatically assume [you] want to be with a man. But in reality, that isn’t what always happens. In fact, one third of us end up with other women, one third with men and about a third end up with other trans persons. What people don’t take into account is that it’s really about the person you fall in love with, not the body parts.
Trans-gender changes are complex.
Quite often a same sex relationship will continue with one partner changing their "role as well as their gender. For instance a lesbian partnership may become a "husband and wife with a male role being adopted by the trans-gender partner
Equally some heterosexual couples may remain together and become a "same sex" relationship when one partner changes gender and becomes the same sex as their partner
I think it is summed up by a quote from an article in the Gay and Lesbian Times:
The complete article gives a variety of experiences and roles and may give some understanding of the complexities
Their lives, their decisions - it is called freedom of choice....
As for the "Butch lesbian" stereotype, says more about the bigotry and closed minded attitudes of others rather than the relationship of the individuals
I think he's objecting to the fact that you had the nerve to actually write "butch lesbians".Are you saying that there aren't really any Butch Lesbians, or that other peoples perception of the life choices of these women are wrong ?
Note..I'm not confusing them with Women with GID
I think he's objecting to the fact that you had the nerve to actually write "butch lesbians".
It's quite a common phrase. But hey ho,this is 2014.
.......if I were a woman looking for a relationship with another woman (because they are a woman), I'd probably start with someone who makes an effort to look like one.
We may be in 2014, but the reality is that people are still judged by others by their appearances....
I think you've just proved your own point
2887919 said:You and your ludicrous optimism.
You mean that some women are in denial so find it easier to come out by forming relationships with women who butch up ?
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No I definitely didn't mean that.
You said "We may be in 2014, but the reality is that people are still judged by others by their appearances." whilst making judgemental comments about people's appearance.
I was merely pointing out your hypocrisy.