What a middle class thread.
Yes, but not uninteresting. Insofar as people are taking sides, they seem to be doing so in a fairly passive way; digging in rather than lobbing grenades. Much more civilised than it could be, if slightly silly at times.
I'm an avid cyclist, but I run a car (three - eek!). My reasons are much as those posted by Brandane and others. I've tried to encourage my children to ride (still naively believing that my views have any impression on those of my issue) and so far it has worked. But I also encourage them to drive at the appropriate age. They may or may not run cars when they have their own money, but it seems a sensible thing to get under their belts. Meanwhile they all have bicycles and seem to enjoy using them.
We live where we do because it is beautiful and we are happy here. When we both worked in different towns (20-ish miles in different directions) and had three young children and an au pair, cars were a blessing. We felt the need of them and I suspect that their absence would have altered our lives quite a lot.
It may be easier to keep the faith if living in a city and/or without dependents.
Within a family, it is not easy to align domestic stability, good (state) schools, work opportunity and all the sport, music and silliness of childhood with a Utopian and car-free life. I dare say some have done it, but it was not for us. I have a high regard for those who have managed it, but we have not. To do so while raising active children merits a medal or similar.
The 'car' debate is but one of many about lifestyle choices: We grow a lot of our own food here. Others might not, but that doesn't make them wrong, naughty or bad - it's just a choice. I know someone who is very
anti-car but who buys supermarket apples from the other side of the world. That's not something I'd do, but I can't see it as a sin or a reason to get my soap box out. Nor do I turn down his
air-mile apples when offered one - as he doesn't turn down lifts I offer.
One thing that does strike me is the extent to which living a life free of motor vehicles is always going to be fantasy at one or another level. Almost everything we eat, ride, sleep on or rake the moss with is delivered by motor vehicle.