One other point, whilst I do agree not to get hung up on speed, I dont believe that the recording sites like strava, ride with GPS and endemodo are all about speed.
I am hooked on strava but don't chase PB's or segments...I LOVE seeing the distance that I have ridden, and my all time distance.
I also find that seeing my mates head out In All weathers helps to remind me that I need to, too.
Plus all the comments, kudos (stravas form of "likes") and achievements...and heatmaps...all help.
Used in the way that works for you, strava and the like are massively motivational apps that I have found to have transformed my riding...just like joining cyclechat has already given you a boost and sense of companionship and support....these site do the same for me.
Just don't go chasing other riders speeds.