Enjoyment.
Is that a crime.
And it's not a flaming race.
If it was a race would we all be stopping at the food stops, having a chat, looking at the elevation profile. No we'd only stop if need be, and then the stop would be as fast a possible. Would groups stop at the top of steep hills, to cheer others on, Hell no we'd be charging on, don't want others catching up.
The only conclusion I can draw is that you are entering races, whereas I am entering sportives (which are not races ffs).
The only conclusion I can draw is that you have trouble comprehending the written word and conducting polite discourse.