Well, 'decent' is your word and you have now gone somewhere with the voyeurism angle that I completely disagree with.It doesn't matter exactly what it is, a decent war, a decent plane crash.... Seeing it like that is all just a form of voyeurism and one of the reasons why we as a species will always be at war, be morbidly attracted to accidents, death and suffering etc etc.
My thinking was that signing up at a time when 'war' was not a prospect would have been without purpose, kinda like doing it just to play games, like those who sign up until they are deployed and suddenly realise what it means to be in the 'Armed Forces'.
I hope that doesn't seem disrespectful to those in the TA and all forces personnel, who have nothing but admiration, respect and gratitude from me for the invaluable role they play, the immense courage that they need every day and their willingness to do what they do.
A friend who is an armoured engineer was telling me about some of the stuff he faced, living locked down in his vehicle for 4 days in a hedgerow in Serbia, I was almost in tears listening to him - but that could also have been because I'd been trying to match his drinking abilities for 5 hours by that point.