DCBassman
Guru
- Location
- The lumpy far South West
As he's already put his hand up and apologised, time to ease off, methinks.
Education is the answer, not confrontation
I’d guesstimate I get *very nearly* hit by a car about once every 500 miles of road riding. Today was the latest occasion.
I spent the rest of my ride thinking about how close it was and what the implications would have been had I been injured. I’m still thinking about it, 8 hours later.
The point of the post - I’m getting increasingly angry about drivers. Not all of them, but the drivers who just can’t drive, the able-bodied drivers who insist on driving half a mile to the shops, the drivers on mobile phones, the drivers who routinely pull into ASL’s...I could go on.
As a result I’ve started to become an overly assertive cyclist. Doing things like getting in front of cars that pull into an ASL when there’s no advantage, taking the lane when I don’t really need to...that sort of thing.
It's important to note that there are bad cyclists and bad drivers, but from my experience 98% of road users are not out there to be pr#cks and will be mindful of other road users,
You have no need to worry I have requested Shaun delete my account....
Thank you to all those that have answered my questions.. they have been vet helpful and I appreciate it..
Ps at 53 I am an not, and never have been a wind up merchant... thanks!
Stuart has now logged out....
Lol. I one time as I reached work, looked over my shoulder and then signalled right, moved into center of road and the guy behind decided to overtake at this point - he actually went not only into the lane oncoming, but actually mounted the kerb past it...Or even to stay off the path.
And so, another person who was interested enough to think about taking up cycling and joined a forum has been put off. So he may have used some poorly phrased terms, so what, he admitted his errors and seemed genuine enough. Some posters on this thread should be ashamed.
Just for a bit of pedantic clarity. I assume you are referring to Stuart not the OP?We don’t really know what happened here. I personally think the OP was wearing his heavy typing hands on the day he started this thread. He probably didn’t have much experience of cycling forums and had no idea of the emotive and very real feelings regular cyclists have about our car centric culture and hideous infrastructure. He wouldn’t have realised the backlash his comments would have.
But he held his hands up and was thoughtful in his apology. He wanted to learn and move on. Although the initial post alluded to bullish behaviour, I don’t think the OP is a bully. By nature, bullies do not apologise. But as it is with the nature of the internet, people only read his initial posts and piled on with the onslaught.
We probably won’t really ever get to know what experience, humour and ideas the OP could have brought to the forum. I am also sad he went in this manner.
Just for a bit of pedantic clarity. I assume you are referring to Stuart not the OP?