Dating advice required

[phil_hg_uk]

I suspect our definition of a "good shag" may be different...

I see you are back then

 

[Andrew_P]

Don't text the first time, you don't have a clue whose number she gave you!!

 

[Fab Foodie]

Lunch date, excellent idea, no pressure on how long it should last, or how it might be expected to end.

Also, if it goes really well you can spend the whole afternoon shagging ....

 

[ColinJ]

Did you lose her phone number

No, but it seemed that every time I went to visit her, there was a new b/f on the scene and I was not prepared to act like that poor bowerbird and have to compete for her affections! In the end, she had a baby and the competition mysteriously evaporated ...

 

[phil_hg_uk]

No, but it seemed that every time I went to visit her, there was a new b/f on the scene and I was not prepared to act like that poor bowerbird and have to compete for her affections! In the end, she had a baby and the competition mysteriously evaporated ...

 

[Ron-da-Valli]

Pay her compliments. This one might be one to avoid though..
" You don't sweat much for a fat lass"

 

[EltonFrog]

Oh, and make sure she's got her own teeth.


Or not. What ever floats boat really. Just sayin'


And money, make sure she's solvent. Not in a sticky way.

 

[Silver Fox]

Don't forget the party hats, even on the first date. You never know.

 

[mark st1]

And don't forget "spit or swallow" should always be your second question. Or your first if your a bit on the rough side.

 

[MontyVeda]

And for god's sake don't call her a "filly" to her face! ...

many moons ago i took great delight in introducing my new 'partner' to my wider circle of friends by saying 'ave you met mi bird? ... not very PC but well worth it just to watch the lefties recoil.

 

[Mr Haematocrit]

Take her for a picnic down by a local river, its informal, not pressurized, has lovely views and ultimately shows you have gone out of your way and put in some effort to make things nice.
IMHO ladies appreciate you putting in a little effort.

I'm equally with Buggi regarding being a gent, I'm a proud sexist/traditionalist, not in the sense where I think women are less capable, but in the sense where I appreciate the differences in each of our ability. I want to open doors, stand up at tables, carry the shopping.. not because the lady can't but because she should not need too.
I grew up watching my father treat my mother in this way, so I do the same... could be why we are both happy.

My view to the original poster would be to be yourself, and be honest to her... its to hard to be anything else

 

[Sara_H]

many moons ago i took great delight in introducing my new 'partner' to my wider circle of friends by saying 'ave you mi bird? ... not very PC but well worth it just to watch the lefties recoil.

Is there a word missing there? Should we fill in the blanks from our imaginatons?

 

[EltonFrog]

And don't forget "spit or swallow" should always be your second question. Or your first if your a bit on the rough side.

And ask if she's ever snogged a girl, if she says yes, she's a keeper.

 

[TVC]

Also, if it goes really well you can spend the whole afternoon shagging ....

You old romantic fool.

 

[TVC]

Looking at some of the advice here I understand why so many forum members are single.