I did reply asking her how could she be certain that she got the stain in my car. She replied that lots of people admired her jeans on Friday night and she has checked with them and there were no stains at the venue so it must have happened in the car on the way home. I then did ask her to come around (she lives about 5 minutes walk away) to show me what caused the stain but she just asked me to valet my car before I next gave her a lift to which I told her that if my car doesn't meet with her approval she could try buying one of her own and she told me I was just being rude and disrespectful and has now blocked me on Facebook.
I know it shouldn't bother me but it does. I've never been good with confrontation and these things always leave me wondering if I could have handled it better.
This girl used to be good friends with my girlfriend and they were really close once but my gf says her drama queen antics does her head in and tries to maintain distance and just tolerates her nowadays rather than be close to her.
The background to the car situation is that she did have a car until last year when it was burned by vandals and ever since she has been begging lifts of people while doing the "poor me, my car was burned and I can't afford to buy a new one" routine ever since although I assume the insurance company would have paid for it and she has had three foreign holidays, this year, apparently endless supply of different outfits and likes to eat out and drink expensive cocktails a lot of the time which suggests to me she could afford a car if it was important to her.
