As a fella, I have no problem with 'traditions ' that have no relevance to modern day thinking. . Giving away' the bride for me personally was something my daughter wanted and expected (as do many women apparently) . It's just tradition, there are many that have no relevance, people still follow them, whatever it maybe. It's about choice, nothing else, as long as it's what everyone within the ceremony wants....no problem.
Of course, had my wife or daughter objected, youd respect that, I'm sure my wifes father would have respected that, as would I for my daughter but she was quite determined I did give her away. It's original meaning had no relevance to her, it's just a tradition and that was important even though it had no meaning. (Isnt it wierd how we follow such things but I guess they give people some comfort)
I just asked my wife. She doesnt think she would go along with the 'giving away' now , but she was happy for it to happen when we did, times change. Equally, she agrees, it's up to the individual. Some definately want it, if you dont, dont.
As the options grow, personally I wouldnt do a church marriage, I'm not religious, its be a little disingenuous of me to say all the words and not mean them (which is why we chose a civil funeral for dad who wasnt religious either). Equally, a marriage is about compromise, personally i dont see the relevance of giving away but if my partner or daughter wanted it because it was traditional, I'd happily, genuinely go along with it.