Each to their own really.
Mr M started playing golf as a kid, took it up seriously as a teenager when he started driving (car).
He plays because he enjoys it and is quite good, got down to 6 handicap but crept up to 8. (Not at all bad for a 50+, short, chubber).
I am happy he has a hobby which gets him out in the fresh air getting a good workout, which he enjoys. Could be doing worse in his spare time.
He says there are some "prats" at the club but he usually just plays with his regular partners and they are all decent, hardworking guys who enjoy a round in their leisure time.