If you want verbal abuse while out cycling come to east Lancashire! There are plenty of thickos here who see someone dressed in lycra as a "puff" because you're doing something they are incapable of. The nicest place i've ridden in is Norfolk. I went there 2 years ago for a holiday,no close passes,plenty of giving way to me,no dumbo chavs on mountain bikes thinking they've beat you because they can overtake you when you've just done 50 miles while they've just got out of bed!
Oh I don't know about that. Plenty of dickless wonders in their 4x4s around here. Tractors with trailers are a bloody nightmare seasonally too.
That said, I would rather ride here than when I used to live in Stoke-on-Trent. The towpaths were brilliant but the road riding was hairy beyond belief with people close passing, numpties in tracky bottoms and football jerseys jumping out in front of you to see if they could get you to fall off, plus the one clown who leaned out of the passenger window and slapped my backside as they passed. Yes I fell off and yes I had a bruise that went from the top of my thigh to the small of my back. I bet that hurt his hand. I hope it did anyhow, cos it hurt me and I was off training for a week.
Lots of wazzocks out there but there are more decent drivers than idiots. It's just a case of picking your route.
Can the OP get out of the main roads and on to some nice rural roads. At least the tractors don't go as fast and you generally have plenty of time to see them and take evasive action if necessary. Cycling is a great sport/hobby and it's a shame to let a few pillocks put you off it.
I know of runners and joggers who get close passed, verbal abuse and all sorts, at least we cyclists have the means to skidaddle a lot faster.