Drago
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Give him 3 months to straighten up or ship out.
All joking aside, I think it is the case that some men are so 'looked after' by their mothers that they lack basic life skills, so for example when it's their turn to cook, it's chicken nuggets and chips, and they, perhaps even unconciously, see housework and homemaking as exclusively a female role. With both partners in a relationship these days generally working, it does place an unfair burden on women.isn't this most men irrespective of age when they leave home.
Yeah, a friend of a friend in her 40s has a condition that has led to her living back at home (she did leave for a bit to go to university) although I don't neccessarily think that she herself would identify it as the reason. Such is the way with these things.I can't believe most people who stay at home at 50 years of age do it because they are contented, there has to be an underlining issue, a fear maybe, mental health issue or something that has stopped them from leaving home.
surely there must be some underlining issue,
Hi, sorry to hear about your situation with your son, it's not easy knowing what to doI have a soon-to-be 24 year old who lays in bed all day ........waiting for XFactor to call him I think..............and it's driving me mental. We've always had problems with him but now it's serious, he's clutching at "careers", signing up, but giving up and then going back to bed. Tbh I always envisaged this position. His two younger siblings are up and running.
But I am 55, I have stuff to do, go back to Spain, live on a boat etc I look at him and think that he'll never have his own place, why should I continue to provide food, clothes and housing for him..........forever?
I can't believe most people who stay at home at 50 years of age do it because they are contented, there has to be an underlining issue, a fear maybe, mental health issue or something that has stopped them from leaving home.
All joking aside, I think it is the case that some men are so 'looked after' by their mothers that they lack basic life skills, so for example when it's their turn to cook, it's chicken nuggets and chips, and they, perhaps even unconciously, see housework and homemaking as exclusively a female role. With both partners in a relationship these days generally working, it does place an unfair burden on women.